I have been thinking a lot about friendship. What it means, what the requirements are and how good of a friend I am. I know that I am a great listener. I can listen for hours. It’s my job, after all. But friends need more than someone to listen to them. They need someone who […]
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Self Care Guilt
What is this thing that happens to me when I do something nice for myself? This immediate pang of guilt. Where on earth does this come from? Why does it happen every time? Either in a feeling of remorse for doing something nice for myself, or a feeling of guilt because I have spent an […]
The Importance of Rest
Working from your rest. What on earth does that mean? It means first rest enough to the point that you actually feel rested in your body, spirit and mind, and then work from that place of rest. It’s backwards to what society tells us. It says just drink a Redbull, get an extra shot of […]
Letting Go of Old Ideas
I was at an AA meeting yesterday and the topic was “Letting Go of Old Ideas”. I had a lot to say about this. The first thing that came to my mind was Fear of Authority. Every time someone tells me, “Hey, can I talk to you for a second,” and they bring me into […]
Do Do leads to Doo Doo
When one is very very busy it can give one a sense that they are feeling accomplished. If ones value is laid up in doing, in getting stuff done, it can make them feel important. When someone things that a busy schedule or a busy life is a positive with out having any balance it […]
Connection Addict 