Becoming a Real-Honest-Friend

I have been thinking a lot about friendship.  What it means, what the requirements are and how good of a friend I am.  I know that I am a great listener.  I can listen for hours.  It’s my job, after all.  But friends need more than someone to listen to them.  They need someone who […]

Prioritizing Connection

Being understood by someone is the best feeling in the world.  Being known feels like being loved.  Times in my life where people really get me make me feel alive.  I feel the worst when I haven’t been understood deeply.  Not being witnessed feels like abandonment and isolation. To feel reasonably happy I need to […]